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Xiao Mi’s mother is recently preparing to let Xiao Mi sleep in a separate room, hoping that she can be more independent.

However, when I first started sleeping alone in the new room, without my familiar parents, and even the familiar smell of the bed was gone, this strange feeling was not good.

So, Xiao Mi and I started the process of decorating the child's room, hoping to make the small room more familiar to her, such as placing their favorite plush toys, their usual bedding, blankets that smell like their mother, and even taking the night light from mom and dad's room.

Xiaomi’s mother wants to say that decorating a child’s room is the process of accompanying the child as he or she grows up, even though the naughty child may only live at home for the first twenty years of her life.

However, when Xiao Mi's mother randomly searched for "children's room" on Baidu, the pictures that came out were like this:

Girls should have a girlish heart and maintain that girlish feeling all their lives, but what’s up with the all-pink Hello Kitty?

Boys should be manly, but blue represents technology?

Believe me, you won’t be able to live in a room like this for long.

From 0-15 years old, the room where the naughty child lives needs to complete the transition from a baby room, a children's room to a teenager's room. Therefore, parents, when decorating the children's room, should refer to the growth patterns and wishes of the naughty child, and then, also help them control aesthetics and practicality.

Today I am reposting an article by my best friend, Miss Two, to talk to you about how to decorate a child's room~

0-3 months:

Baby bed + locker + changing mat

At this stage, the little kid will only be busy with 6 things: eating, drinking, defecating, urinating, sleeping and crying. Time: anytime, location: parents' room. So the baby room we usually talk about may not be a room, it may just be a crib in the parents' room.

It does not take up much space and can be placed next to the wall or a large bed. The basic configuration is a closed crib + a cabinet with powerful storage function + a changing mat.

Look, it's the cabinet below, with big drawers specially used to store baby's stuff. Even though they only eat and sleep every day, they have a lot of stuff, including diapers, quilts, clothes, etc.

The height of the cabinet should preferably be up to our waist, with a changing mat placed on it, and it will become an operating table for changing diapers for babies.

This kind of wooden shelf is also very useful. As usual, put the changing mat on the top layer and put a few storage boxes below to store the kid's things. It is also very thoughtful to prepare a wardrobe for the kid in advance like the one below.

There are many colorful children's furniture on the market, with various cartoon patterns and round table and chair legs, which are both loving and childlike...

Believe me, even if you buy these furniture, you will only use them for a few years, because when the kids grow up, these furniture will either be thrown away or given away. So parents, you must get rid of the misunderstanding that children's room = cartoons.

Whether it is a cabinet or a wardrobe, the shape and color must be the simplest. The key is to buy it once and for all, and it will accompany your kid from 2 months to 20 years old.

If there is enough space, you can also put a chair next to the crib, so that everyone has 1 square meter to do as they please.

Come on, let's do it~ As long as the naughty kid is asleep, it is definitely a great pleasure in life to sit next to him and play computer games or admire the little kid's sleeping posture.

3 months to 2 years:

Carpet + Mirror + Mattress

In addition to eating and sleeping, little kids have gradually acquired many new skills: rolling over and crawling. Therefore, there should be enough floor space in the children's room for little kids to stretch their limbs.

Crawling mats and carpets are both good choices. However, carpets are the easiest places to hide dirt and grime. In addition to regular cleaning, remember that adults wearing shoes should not approach them.

If there is no separate children's room, a corner of the parents' room can also be arranged like this

Hehe, keeping fit starts from infancy. Uneven bars + mirror + crawling mat are also exclusive configurations for children's rooms.

The curious baby looks at the little kid in the mirror, stretches out his little hand to touch him, opens his little mouth and laughs happily... The two uneven bars are not just for decoration. The high one has toys hung on it to encourage the little kid to practice raising his head, and the low one to practice standing upright, and he can also use it to walk.

But remember to take safety measures. Not only should the mirrors and high and low bars be installed firmly, but the mirrors should also be covered with explosion-proof film.

At this time, you can add some furniture to the children's room, after all, there are more and more toys and clothes. There is still a principle for buying furniture: once and for all, use it from 8 months to 80 years old.

This type of storage cabinet is the most suitable. First, it has powerful storage function. Second, it can be used for a long time. And small children can use it to practice slowly before learning to walk.

If your kid grows fast, a closed crib may not provide enough space for him to kick and punch. At this time, you might as well change your thinking and replace the crib with a small mattress so your kid can roll around on it until he is 20 years old!

The key is to slowly train a person's courage to sleep. Just imagine, when you wake up, the closed crib is surrounded by railings, and your limbs cannot be stretched out. Then the only sound is crying, which is the least afraid of obstruction.

It is better to have an open space like this, where you can wake up in a good mood and play by yourself, and you don’t have to worry about him falling to the ground and bumping into things.

You can put it in the crib or next to you when you sleep at night. After all, it takes a long time.

The key is that you can sit down and interact with him anytime and anywhere. There is nothing more precious than parent-child time.

2 to 7 years old:

Children's bed + low cabinet + desk + bookshelf

The brave kids of this age already have their own room. If you are still worried or there is not enough room in your home for the time being, you can make a temporary transition as shown below.

Although it looks like a "snail house", the decorations on the wall and the small partitions are full of your love for your children. The most comfortable state is for a family to live independently while relying on each other.

If you want to decorate a room for a brave child, you must remember this catchphrase: You are still young and don’t understand…

Moms and dads, let’s not act like hooligans. Little kids also have their own interests and joys. Moms and dads can be your military advisors, but I have to be the boss in my own territory.

At the age of 4, Nuoyi was known as a 10th-level fan of Journey to the West. On the walls of his room were pasted shadow puppets and posters of Sun Wukong, as well as Nuoyi’s exclusive Somersault Cloud brand.

According to the view of adults, boys should like long guns and short guns, but where can they grow up with the warmth of their favorite Monkey King?

Looking again, the floor is covered with a tiger skin carpet. Is it the "leopard print skirt" that Sun Wukong wore when he went to the West to obtain Buddhist scriptures?

Next to Nuoyi's bed is a set of low cabinets, which not only trains the child's organizing ability, but also can be used for a long time.

After a while, when Nuoyi grows taller, you can replace the crib with guardrails with a children's bed, but the low cabinet next to the crib does not need to be replaced.

As shown below, if the crib is replaced with a children's bed, the baby will no longer look childish and it will become a proper children's room.

Now you know the importance of once and for all that Xiao Mi's mom has been talking about~

It’s time to start cultivating your child’s reading habits! Don’t bother with a large bookcase. Just build a bookshelf against the wall that’s a little taller than his height so he can reach the books with just his arms outstretched.

There is another major change in children of this age. How can a baby grow up overnight? Every day, he has to carry a small schoolbag and jump to school, so please prepare a small desk and a small chair in the room~

When choosing furniture, remember the "small and thin legs" principle, so that the space will appear transparent and spacious.

The height ruler records the parent-child time between you and your child.

7-12 years old:

Single bed + bedside lamp + wardrobe

The little kids who used to carry small school bags are now grown-ups. Even the cribs can’t accommodate our height anymore.

This simple bed can last for a long time, and the placement of the toy cabinet that was once full of toys can be completely handed over to the adults! The changing cushions are also thrown away, and a shelf is nailed on, and the children can put whatever they like.

Bedside lamps are standard equipment in the room. The simpler the appearance, the better. However, the light must be chosen carefully so as not to hurt children's eyes.

As children grow older, they have more and more things. You might as well try the currently popular single beds with powerful storage functions.

Don’t rush to redo the blackboard wall that was specially built for the naughty kid. Maybe the older kid in his “rebellious period” will like this unique black wall! By the way, this kid is obviously a science student…

Folding clothes by yourself, preparing clothes for the next day the night before... these habits have been formed. So, don't give your child excuses in the future. From the beginning of preparing a wardrobe for him, tell him that it only contains his own things and he has to organize them himself.

Can't reach it? Don't worry, mom is watching you. Knowing that you have put away the toys is a great sense of accomplishment!

12-18 years old:

Books! Books! Books!

When a child reaches the rebellious stage, the biggest problem now is not that you have to help him decorate the room, but that you may not even be able to enter his room.

At the age of chasing stars, girls like handsome young men, while boys like basketball stars and playing games. Before they fill their rooms with idol-related products and posters, put some more books in there.

Second child room:

No matter age

The layout of the children's rooms above are all in the same rhythm, so what would it be like if there are two naughty children?

Shopping X2, busyness X2, so is the kid's room also X2?

But when housing prices are crazy, your child is still small, and you haven't saved enough money to buy a big house, let's discuss how to decorate a second child's room~

There is only one principle for decorating a second child's room: zoning. Remember not to always say "You are the older sister...", "You are the older brother...", but "You are the older brother, you have to protect your younger brother at night..."

When the child grows up, he will no longer sleep in the crib? Then you will be on the left and I will be on the right.

If the space is not big enough, the two beds can be placed side by side and the painting of each person can be hung at the head of the bed.

Or like this, place it 90 degrees against the corner, this is the real love around the corner.

Even if there is only one naughty child at home, many parents will choose a bunk bed because the lower bunk can be used for sleeping and the upper bunk can be used for storage, and the child can stay there for a few days when his or her parents come to live at home.

Therefore, if you have two children at home, a bunk bed is the perfect choice. Let's play rock-paper-scissors to decide who will sleep on the top and who will sleep on the bottom.

In fact, Xiaomima thinks that if you decide to have a second child early on, you might as well let the first child join your plan. Look, won’t this be so cute that it will melt all kinds of mother fans and sister fans?

In this way, it is also good to have a brother or sister who can quarrel, fight, compete for favor and cry from childhood.

After 18 years old…

After so many times of decorating, 18 years old is a watershed. It’s time to go to college, work, get married... This room will gradually become empty...

I saw a very sad metaphor online before: life is like an A4 paper with grids drawn on it. If we meet with them twice a month, then the time we spend with them is like this…

Therefore, the first twenty years of life are the rare time we spend with our parents. Xiao Mi's favorite Korean drama is "Reply 1988". There is a detail in it that Sun Woo saw his usually strong mother crying like a child after receiving a call from his grandmother, saying:

Even when I reach my mother's age

Mom is still mom's patron saint

This article is reproduced from my good friend Jian Erjia (zhebahu)

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Do your children sleep in separate rooms?

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